学生的压力主要来自于哪里？

来源于自己和周边人对自己过高的期望，觉得自己达不到想要的标准，力不从心

来源于和同龄人的差距，想追追不上的无助，明明自己看上去比别人更努力却还是和他们有差距

初中生的压力是要努力考上好的高中，高中生的压力就是考上好的大学，大学生的压力就是要找一份好的工作，各个时期都有不一样的压力，都来源于自己对自己，别人对自己的高要求，想要变得更好更优秀，出发点是好的，但不建议给自己太大的压力，会适得其反，可以在课余时间培养一下兴趣爱好，放松一下，学生时期还是应该以快乐为主的，青春嘛，别给自己太大的压力，窗外的夕阳也很好看

College Stress
Before entering college , We were told that college life is totally free without any stress. But after experiencing two years in college, I find we are cheated. Stress is filled in every corner of the college campus. I can feel its exist every now and then.
In fact, college stress lies in three aspects:academic stress, financial stress and personal stress.
Academic stress is the first stress for a student as well as a college students. Just like the financial achievement for work people, academic achievement is a core evaluation for students. In recent education, academic achievement has been put to the first priority. The whole society, schools, teachers and parents focus to much on the academic achievement. In fact, this is the problem in our current evaluation system. Under this kind of system, how can students avoid the big stress? Of course not. They have to carry on so much of it. Too much stress does no good to their academic performance as well as heathy development. As we can see, there are more and more students killing themselves to get rid of terrible academic stress. So we’d better to make a change in the current evaluation system by reducing some attention on academic achievement. Instead, we should focus on more about overall abilities of students.
There are also financial stress on college students. For most college students, it is the fist time for them to manage money for free. With too much freedom, many of them have no clear plan for their money. As a result, they may use up of all their money early in the month. So, before their parents give them money in the next month, they are in big financial stress. They have to spare every penny to make the ends meet. Sometimes they even have no money for food, not to mention clothes or entertainment. But they still want to keep up with others. So they take all kind of measures to satisfy their dignity, such as borrow money from friends, loan in the bank or even steal their roommates. Except for the students who can not make the end meet, there are some students whose family is too poor to give them enough money. For those students, they may be under greater financial stress.
As for the personal stress, the reasons come from many aspects such as appearance and relationship. College students, especially girls focus more on their appearance. They spend a large amount of money on clothing, make ups and so on. For those in rich families, they can afford such an expanse. While for those in poor families, if they also follow with the fashion, they must be in great pressure. The relationship stress mainly refers to girl friend or boy friend relationship. Students may feel lack of face if they haven’t gotten a girl friend or boy friend yet. Under this kind of stress, they are in a great hurry in looking for another part, thus they may make false choice.
In fact, stress can benefit college students as long as it is controlled at a certain level. So the first thing for college students is to set clear goals for future. Only in this way, can they focus on promoting themselves instead of being interfered by external environment.

各方压力啊 自己的目标，同学的压力，老师家长的